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"Excuse me, Mr. Marsters?"

Posted by Carl on September 6, 2006


I’ve always wanted (i.e. hoped, pressed) my son to be polite and respectful. For us, it’s important that he refer to adults by their proper name - e.g. Mr. Trembley, and not on a first name basis.

Way back in April, we were at a Tuesday night game - it was in the middle innings and I was out of my seat, off with my daughter somewhere. When I came back, Zak had his ball. The catcher had apparently tossed it to him at the end of the inning. “Where’d you get that?”, I asked him. “Brandon Marsters threw it to me after he caught a pop-up!!”. His eyes were huge and he was grinning from ear to ear. For the next few innings, I would glance over at him, and I could see him staring off into space with that smile, absent mindedly tossing the ball into his glove over and over. Then he said something which surprised me. “You know what Dad? He smiled at me when I said “thanks”.” Up until that point, I thought it was all about the ball, but it was more than that. It was the connection he now had with number 10 - he had picked Zak out of a small crowd, thrown him a ball and then acknowledged him with a smile. From that point on, Mr. Marsters became a special player for the Kiiffners. He would graciously agree to our many autograph requests, and when he couldn’t, he would take the time to explain why - “I’m sorry, I have to go warm up with the guys.”

For the final game of the season, Mr. Bostwick very kindly delivered a series of pictures and baseball cards we had framed for him, along with a thank you note. By this point, I’m pretty sure he thought we were a bunch of stalkers. My only regret? I didn’t take a photo of the picture.

We saw Brandon at the last game on Monday and he thanked Zak for the frame and gave him one of his hats. A class act to be sure. We’ll miss him.

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We’re officially hooked

Posted by Carl on September 6, 2006

To: bostwick@ottawalynx.com
Sent: Thursday, April 13, 2006 7:33 AM
Subject: A great night at the park!
Dear Mr. Bostwick,

I just wanted to pass on a brief note of appreciation for the great night my family had at the park on Tuesday night. My 9 year old son got chosen to participate in the movie trivia contest and caught a ball kindly tossed to him by Brandon Marsters in the fifth or sixth. My soon to be 3 year old daughter made a bunch of new “girlfriends” a few rows down and spent the rest of her time sitting on my lap, munching away on popcorn and a hotdog (my wife wasn’t around to supervise the evening’s “nutritional” entertainment!). The Lynx staff were very friendly, approachable and, it seemed, always smiling.

I hope the Lynx can continue on in Ottawa; unfortunately I probably am guilty of being one of those fans who’ve taken it for granted for too long. No longer. I bought two half-season’s tickets in the lower level while we were at the game on Tuesday.

Thanks again and my compliments to you and your staff. Best wishes to you and the team during the 2006 campaign.

Yours truly,
Carl Kiiffner.

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My shot at the media

Posted by Carl on September 6, 2006

I know, I know. I said this would be optimistic, but I’ve got to get this out of the way. This was a letter I sent on August 27 to the Ottawa Citizen, the Ottawa Sun, CBC Radio and the A-Channel. As far as I know, the Sun was the only member of the media to “publish” it (they edited it pretty heavily), although the Citizen called to say they were considering it.

Here it is:

I am both saddened and disappointed by the news media’s handling of the recent events involving the Ottawa Lynx. For the better part of the last week, print, television and radio have been reporting about the imminent demise of the Triple A ball club. According to these various news outlets and their “sources”, an announcement was to come on August 24. After meeting with the mayor, the public was to have been informed that the Lynx were leaving after the 2007 season.
Unfortunately for the media, the Lynx refused to follow the script. There was no news, no departure date, no folding of the tent as we’d been promised. Rather than reporting what was, ostensibly, “good news”, the majority of the members of the media covering this story opted to parse Mr. Pecor’s and Mr. Bostwick’s words for any grey cloud they could find in the silver lining. Editorials declared that the Lynx had died a long time ago, that Ottawa had passed baseball by. Some even went so far as to imply that Mr. Pecor’s sanity was in question for electing not to move or sell the franchise. In so doing, they have once again missed the story of the Ottawa Lynx. I would like to see, hear or read a story about the absolute wonder expressed in the face of a kid after a player points to them and tosses them a ball. A story about the father and son who can relax at the park, spending time together while they enjoy the beauty of the game, not bound to their seats until a “stoppage in play”, not shouting at each other over deafening music. A story about the impact this team has on the community; the charities it supports, the reading program it developed, the fans it attracts. And if the media opts instead for stories about the cold hard “facts” of the franchise, why not a piece on the contribution this team makes to the bottom line? The number of local employees it pays, the money spent by visiting teams, the rent and taxes it hands over – year upon year?

Were I as cynical and as pessimistic as members of the media I might suggest that the media, having irresponsibly reported (or, misreported) this story for so long, have to save face – they’re not really wrong about the story, you see. They’re just not right - yet. Google “Ottawa” “Lynx” “rumour” and “sold” and see how many hits you get. This is all part of the damage they perpetuate – why would fans come to see a team the media keeps writing off as dead? The prophecy becomes self-fulfilling, albeit with a huge assist going to the reporters.

My nine year old son’s heroes are primarily on the field - the gifted players who can throw, hit and catch a baseball in ways few can imagine. My heroes are those who won’t quit, even when everyone is telling them to. The people who look at 100-1 odds against them, and answer the bell anyway. Mr. Pecor is one of those people. Mr. Bostwick is one of those special individuals, as are the members of the Lynx staff. No matter how many times they’re told “it’s over”, they keep coming back. The irony here, which the media has largely missed, is that Ottawa has had more than its fair share of irresponsible owners; gentlemen who have deceived and/or threatened, usually demanding concessions from the city and their fans before quitting on this town. Mr. Pecor has done none of these things and he certainly hasn’t quit on Ottawa. It’s an embarrassment that Ottawa appears to have done exactly that to him.

I have no solutions for the team and I know that one day the media may be proven correct. However, given the media’s deplorable track record on the subject, I will put my faith in what Mr. Pecor and Mr. Bostwick have to say on the subject of the team’s future. I’ll buy season tickets, show up with my family and enjoy all that this team and its organization have to offer. I hope that they continue to ignore the script.

As a post script, I note that this post bears a resemblance to a post in Steve Warne’s blog over on the Team’s website. Should anyone care to check, I sent a copy of my letter to the Lynx by email, an hour and a half before Steve’s post showed up. “Great” minds think alike.

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Full disclosure

Posted by Carl on September 6, 2006

As a frequent reader of many political type blogs, I believe in the principle of “full disclosure”. In the interest of eliminating any doubt as to where I stand on the issue, I figured I should make my position known in my very first post. I am, quite obviously a fan of the Ottawa Lynx. I am, I suppose, a bigger fan of the organization - from the owner (now, minority owner) Ray Pecor, on down. It is my sincerest hope that this team remains in Ottawa, and I have pledged to do whatever I can to make that happen.

I am a season ticket holder for the 2007 season - the first time in my 38 years that I’ve held season tickets for anything. For 2006, I bought two 1/2 season tickets and my son and I went to about 75% of those games - we missed a bunch in May and June due to his own baseball schedule. Up until this year, I was probably the worst kind of Lynx fan - the indifferent one. The fan who’d been to games a while ago, went occasionally, but one for whom the team didn’t really appear on their radar. In late 2004 I went to a few games with my seven year old son. He’d just started playing softball and was showing some interest in baseball. I decided over the winter of 2004-2005 that I really should “put up” rather than “shut up”. Yeah, I wanted the team to stay, so I bought one of those Chum radio ticket deals - I think we got 20 tickets, a hat, and four (?) tickets to opening day. To my great shame, I think we might have used 10 of the tickets. We did, however, show up for the last two games in 2005 and something clicked. My son, Zechariah (aka Zak, Zakky, Zakeroo) was trying like crazy to get a ball - we were sitting behind the Lynx dugout, and I noticed a fan in the middle of row C (section MM), talking to one of the players as he came off the field. The fan was nodding his head, motioning the player towards Zak - the player flipped a ball to Zak. Unfortunately, Zakky got swarmed and didn’t catch the ball. The fan looked back at me, shrugged his shoulders and mouthed a sincere “Sorry”. Zak was CRUSHED that he didn’t get a ball - a ball from the gift shop wasn’t the same thing. I promised him we’d be back next year and that we’d get a ball. He ran the bases that final game with a huge grin. Both my kids seemed energized by this place, and I had been struck by the kindness of the stranger who noticed my son and tried to make him happy. Yes, I thought, we’ll definitely be back.

I hope that this blog will become a focal point for information about the team, and a place where ideas can be shared. I’m not interested in finger pointing and laying blame; how we got to this point is less important to me than how we get back to where we were. I’d like this blog to be a hopeful, optimistic place, chronicling the next year in this team’s life.

Please check back from time to time, and pass the link on to others who may be interested.

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